The ability to be able to win people over
I know this may come across as arrogant but I think I do a lot introspection to monitor my actions and see if they could ever be damaging, harmful, or offensive to anyone. There have been so many instances where I faced guilt because I felt that I had ruined someone's day with how I behaved at the moment. Sometimes I still regret not apologizing where apologies were due.
My dream, my emotions, and my feelings
I dont have any of that
Bouncebackability:
The strength of teaching
Be kind. I always try to understand other people's feelings and remain humble. I also try to check in on my friends who need help.I know the world often views this as a weakness and tries to take advantage of me. However, the One who created the universe has saved me from a lot of danger.It can be hard to stay kind because people often tell me that I should expect others to treat me the same way. Honestly, I sometimes expect that too. But I try to remember that my reward and expectations come only from the Creator, not the world.Most of the time, people get bored with me because of this. Maybe it's true that people get bored of you when you show them too much love While that can be painful, I would still rather love being kind than feel lost.
We all have 3 months before 2027, let’s make it the best end possible
Being kind to everyone and gentle
I think I have a lot of grit, but I can also be too stubborn with it sometimes. I’m still learning when persistence is valuable and when it’s better to reassess and consider different courses of action.
The strength of being human. The power of knowing yourself and its limits. The art of cutting myself some slack when every single cell in my body is judging me. The ability to change uncontrollable bad habits by conscious alone.
My ability is kindness for all , helping everyone and dont expect anything from anyone
My ability to be within my own company without necessarily feeling lonely. It took practice but I can out by myself without feeling self conscious.
Starting again no matter how bad it gets get
Resilience & seeing the good in people ( but thats debatable if thats a strength imo)
My ability to understand. Not just in terms of cognitive empathy (understanding what others are experiencing), but also just understanding in general. I have Autism, got diagnosed late (when I was 16) due to not seeing any mental health professionals until my mental health got way too bad for me to not go see one. Anyway, cognitive empathy was not always something I was very good at, I didn’t have a very good understanding of others intentions. Reading Psychology in school (and at home) as well as studying people’s behavior a bit too much led me to become much better at reading people and understanding others. I’ve always been very empathic, my affective empathy has always been very high. Being around other people feels much less threatening when I understand them, I’m also able to be there for others when I understand what they’re going through and thus what they need. Now that I’m writing this I realize that I’m probably underestimating my social skills a bit lol, maybe I haven’t been that bad at cognitive empathy in the first place idk
the ability to see the good in other people
I think my ability to have Grit in something that i want to achieve
Love
The ability to become obsessed with something
The fact that I analyze life situations very well to the point of almost always predicting what will happen.
I underestimate my ability to adapt and grow. I have always conquered and adapted to any new challenge and situation that I’ve been put into in life. I feel like I am afraid of change often in life and tell myself I can’t try or do new things, but any time I actually have that change in life thrust upon me or I have to step up, I adapt without issue and make it work. So I should give myself a little more grace and credit by seeing the strength I have, maybe I shouldn’t be so afraid of change and recognize how much I can adapt and grow
The power to create something big , personally I feel like I can do it but the ideas come in and all I think and apply strategies but somehow I underestimate it and somehow my ideas comes out somewhere from the internet, I have read this online which says do not take simple decisions everytime your brain is an organ and it does get tired because of chemical reactions, maybe I'm tired always but I hope I get back
My ability to forgive others, no matter who they are and what they have done to me, as soon as the pain they cause me stops. I do not forget what happened though, and I am cautious with them, especially if I never got an apology, acknowledgement of my feelings or validation for them. I do not hold onto hate, though. I wish people who hurt me the very best without me in their life. I would never take revenge upon others. I just protect myself and abandon toxic dynamics. That is who I am.
My ability to not hold grudges or be affected by the disrespect of others.
“What is a strength you have that you feel you underestimate?”HIDE
Bailey Schildbach
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