Don't worry, it's for someone specific, they get it
I feel jealousy is a great way to know what you want in life. If it makes your jealous, then work for it, and get it. Nobody's stopping you, are they mate?
kung fu pandaπΌ Man, I love the movie. what's your favourite part?
kinda giving.. you are the main character of your life energy
I like this oneβ€οΈ heheπ
Pain is permanent, suffering is optional. Harder to practice though, been trying for a while
Just because the result is bleh, doesn't mean you should hate the journey to get there.
OH yeah, my friend told me the other day. Be kinder to your younger self. She made the best decision she could with the knowledge, life experience and constraints she had. Because of her, we now know better.
Amen!
I didn't get the setting partπ€
I am the captain of my own ship. I (my talent, skill) and the waves (the unknown, the universe) decide were I will go. Nobody else. It's between me and the universe
Hard won wisdom!!
I agree, it has so many layers the more you think about it
Not every fight needs a resistance. Like if you're stuck in quicksand. The more you fight, the deeper it pulls you in. STOP Learn to float Lean back and let go, the sky is still there.
This is likely one of my favorite quotes related to balancing creativity and sustaining life.
If yo feel like running and hiding and burst in tears every time you have a bit of a hard time just forget who you are for a second and look into your self and think "im here because I didn't do it i didn't ran and hide and left everything behind i guss im really that strong" and then you'll have a better time (I hope)
I agree.
In the now, ouside time, we already are everything and nothing can be added to us to make us more happy. Trying to make yourself better is based on seeing yourself lacking. This is not an actual problem, it's just misperception of self, identification with (false) ideas.
Don't get jealous. Say: "This is for me." instead.
Be proud to try because there is no shame in failure
Destroy any habits that is keeping you away from your ultimate purpose in life. And give your everything for it. πββοΈ
Ψ§Ψ¨Ω ΨΩ ΩΨ― Ψ΅ΨΩΨ
It is entirely your responsibility who you are, your thoughts, and your beliefs, and that life is far too short to waste on bullshit and not to fully enjoy its gifts and miracles.
Every adult is just a child in a suit of armour
Being love and stillness seems to be the bravest thing if you have identified with fear for ages. It requires you drop all defences and fully trust you are love and can't be harmed. If you do not identify with fear, you do not need to defend it.
Pain, fear and "background anxiety" are there only to protect us from the stillness and emptiness beneath. They (idea of fear etc.) are with us because we want them. We made everything we experience. We are wrong about ouselves, though. We are not fear. We are love and that stillness beneath is not death for us, it's our home, where we are unconditional love. It's a death only of the ideas we identify with.
We all for the "sleeping beauty" story. The prince didn't kiss the princess to wake her up. He kissed the princess to wake himself up from the nightmare he is in -max payne
The most important thing in life is family.
Hope and Faith. Two of the hardest yet most nourishing things to have and believe in.
Apparently... pain has an attention span. State it down
Water that passed doesnβt move the mill
Roll with the Punches and Love Wholeheartedly
"You are allowed to exist without justifying your existence with productivity." Your achievements do not decide your worthiness of being loved; your routine does not have to make you feel guilty for resting. Take a break when it starts to get intense, and take care.
Pain of discipline is much better than pain of regret
No one knows what they are doing, So do what you feel
The best you can do can look different from day to day, so don't beat yourself up for not living up to what you did yesterday.
"You're stronger than you think you are. Trust me." - Superman
Chase your dreams.
Just do it. You never know when you're getting the chance to do that thing again.
That nothing in life is personal , except love.
Wrong place and work anyway is experience, not failure, try, try and.. try!
I got one life, why not make the best out of it? Memories is what we will carry to our grave, let's not carry regrets.PEOPLE SHALL REMEMBER I WAS HERE.(rahh lol)
The more you know, the less you Need
One of the things that will stunt your progress the most is a negative mind,it is like poison and it kills u very slowly and to me the best thing u could learn is to be able to sit in the boredom of repetition and still stay excited with whatever ur doing
"Everyone is an artist till rent is due*
Don't show your glitters unless you are capable of defending if other people try to exploit it.
Don't criticise your younger self too harsh because of false decisions or mistakes. What we had then is not the same as what we have now, so mistakes are unavoidable. It's part of learning :).
Learn how to sit with discomfort by yourself. No distractions. Just embracing the unpleasant feelings.
Enjoy the little things! Being happy doesn't necessarily mean doing something big.
Everything is a win when your attitude to life is to learn.
Never love someone more than yourself
You have to fail a lot. Start now
Till death, all defeat is psychological
No one will save you, you are the only one who can.
Nobody is coming to save you , you must save yourself
We think we have much time but we don't have , so value the time
That we all grow out of people and it's fine
Accept what you cannot change. like Ganfald said, all we have to decide is what to do with the time that's given to us.
Don't let anyone else's actions or opinions control your life. Your life its yours, do what your soul tells you until its leading to something fulfilling and which will help you grow.
For single Guys who wants to wait for their Godly Woman.... Always think like a Husband...
Indeed
Current events in your life do not have nearly as global implications on your life as it may seem like in the moment, at present, while they're happening.
I love this
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a giftβthat is why it is called the present.
Ohhhh!!! I love this!!!!
Self doubt is the death of happiness
Don't walk into a burning building just because you're cold
Without being graphic or using any medical jargon, this came from my time as a paramedic. I tell myself what I tell everyone when they need to hear it- βNo one promised you a tomorrow.β
Supreme self love and detachment from everything is key
Time is limited. Use it and don't let it waste.
A negative mind, will never ever give you a posetive Life ! Change is not that hard trust me, healing is not hard, controling your mind isnot. You are not stock, You are not hopeless, You are always 1 desecion away from a complete different lifeπ
Comparison is the thief of joy, but reflection is the architect of progress.
Your intuition would rarely betray you, no matter how quiet she usually is. But your mind. Your mind is chained to your brain, with its unconscious fears and desire to merely survive. So trust your intuition more, please π€. She knows better.
The more you do the things that scare you, the less power they have over you
Thinking positive, learn from mistake and move forward
Restarting is part of the process, yourself is your greatest project, it's OK to take a step back once in a while. P.S. Setting the lines on the sand isn't impatience.
Return to the present. Take it one day at a time.
Everything will pass. You will be fine!
You can barely ever change a grown adults idea about something, but a kid will hang on your every word
You can't control how you feel , but you can control how you react
What you are is changing all of the time but what it is doing is always the same
Time will pass anyway. Even if you do something good, or if you don't. Do something every day that you will be glad that you started doing.
u have to focus on ur academic carrer esp if was ur dream pain is temporarry but regret is forever...
Have you ever coughed up a part of yourself you forgot was there and found out what a soul tastes like? That what self improvement is, itβs confronting the ugly parts of yourself that you hide away from the world because youβre ashamed that you canβt fix them. But they were never meant to be fixed. Youβre meant to hug them tightly with care and love in-spite of them being flaws. You negotiate with them, find a way to co-exist because the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Make yourselves whole, its worth the pain and suffering I promise
You must understand ,you will lose alot of people around you when you reach 18 yrs because from this age on you are no longer the kid that love playing always. you will focus on career and future more often and alot of people around you may not align with this type of focus and leave you. And you need to be comfortable with it, You will feel lonely. Coming from someone who had alot of friend and now have no one to talk to.
Growing pains wonβt break you. But staying idle for too long will. Donβt give up. Keep fighting.
Life will knock you down many times. The lesson is to always rise. Never Give Up π·
"Always trust your gut. And protect your inner peace."
andy
That dream did not cross your mind for nothing, trust Allah ππ
you can never make someone stay if they want to leave you cannot stop someone from leaving and you shouldn't
Take your time. Enjoy the moment
We all make mistakes. Our actions donβt define us. Our reaction to them is what defines us.
If you believe in yourself, you are halfway there! Trust me it's all about the mindset!
Allow yourself to take a break.
It's not about you (nothings personal everyone is caught up in their own little bubble and doesn't really care about you) and a bonus one! Life has no purpose, sooooooo you get to decide what your purpose is! Make the most of it in your own authentic, artistic way!!!
Allow yourself to take a break and let your body breathe in order for you to get up again
Happiness isn't something to get to. One shouldn't say "once I achieve this, then I'll be happy". Because yeah, that can be true, for about a few moments after you achieve the thing that you want and then you chase after something new. You MUST create happiness in your day to day life. Stop living your life in your head, in the idea of the future. You can be happy now. Even in the little moments.
Itβs not much of a lesson, but I think everyone should just listen, and chill sometime. Everything doesnβt need action, or an answer, but just our presence and patience. It can allow things to bloom we otherwise would never see. To just be present, and true is just the connection people need for a garden to grow.
how you describe your emotion effects how they physically feel to you
A hungry animal will be desperate enough to eat poisonous fruit.
Limerence is only temporary.
To live is not to dwell in the past, itβs to look exactly what lays in front of us and hoping not to glance in the past. Life goes on.
Get therapy before you learn why you needed it the hard way
18 is not a deadline
Live must be lived fowards but can only be understood backwards
You are capable of so much more than you think <3
Imperfections are what make us perfect
The biggest difference in transitioning between childhood and adulthood is lack of love for one's self. We treat kids with so much love but forget to do it that openly when they get older and face the most important stages in their life. They dont understand what happened and start to blame themselves and break themselves after every failure. When you start realizing that everyday that you wake up alive is proof that you are worth it you'll be able to tackle any problem and achieve every dream.
Don't choose something / someone out of loneliness
π― true
It's alright if it's all wrong.
The only way to get good at something is by being bad and by bad I mean by being absolutely trash at it. Also Let go And live some more
Live for no one else & make yourself proud. You know your goals & values better than anyone.
Im not becoming someone i am someone.
Days are long, time is short. You can do anything you want, but not everything. Sometimes, you're faced with hard choices, and there is never really a right or wrong answer. People see the choices you've made, not the options you had. Opinions are countless, so you'll never satisfy everyone. Do what's best for you and the people that matter to you. Hold yourself accountable for your actions, but forgive yourself if you've done your best. We don't all have the same 24 hours, but we do have 24 hours, so let's make do with what we have, and that'll just have to be good enough.
We should always act with love, tenderness, and compassion β toward ourselves and others.
Control you emotions.Humans are selfish
Our actions define our future
Love yourself, and learn what that means to you.
If you spend your entire life governed by other's expectations of you, it wasn't really your life. Ignore what others say, live life yourself.
βno matter how bad life hammered you down, never stop being kind & have empathy, karma always found itβs own pathβ
everyone should understand how important is to live in the present
You are one of a kind.
Discipline is the highest version of self love
β"What is one life lesson you think everyone should know?"βHIDE
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